I am not sure what you are trying to accomplish with you application of the tape, but I was looking for something to get a more consistent and cleaner release. I tried a couple of brands, VISE, Brunswick, etc... and didn't find any to my liking, much for the same reasons you had stated. Then when I was looking for a new ball cleaner I stumbled upon Valentino's Franken Tape. This has been the best tape I have tried. It doesn't seem to have the adhesion problems I found with the other brands and it seems to be less averse to bunching when applying. I find that it lasts much longer than the others, and when you need to remove it, it comes off pretty easily without leaving a residue, which is a major plus. That being said, it is a really thin tape, so I am not sure how good it will work if you are trying tighten your thumb hole up as it would require quite a few pieces of tape when compared with the other brands.
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in use: LevRG, Twisted Fury, Momentum Swing, Destruction
retired: Smokin' Inferno (White Pin), Hawg, Zone Classic (Red Pin)