Very good explanation! Just to add another facet - to some degree you can counter the early friction problem with release adjustments, e. g. raising speed, add side rotation (which promotes slide in the front part of the lane), play with revs (sometimes reduction can help, e. g. combined with a suitcase grip relese, adding some can allow you to play deeper and fresher lines), play "virgin" lane areas instead of insisting on a certain line, or even lofting.
But that's IMO just the second best solution, because using a ball which is not designed for the condition at hand will make you fight with it - an unnecessary error factor.
A "strong" ball really does not mean more carry. Not even more hook. The overall package, in line with the user's style, has to match, and less is IMHO more, esp. with very aggressive covers on high end equipment these days which really requires high and long oil volumes, which "normal" house bowlers rarely encounter!
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