Wait... First, the layout you've described doesn't do anything for me with my release style. Period, any ball, any time. It goes dead straight. You said your friend's Punisher hooks more, but you did not say it was drilled the same. I just redrilled my AI and it went from terrible to great, and the change really wasn't that much. I hated to redrill it, but it REALLY did the trick. Was your friend's Punisher the same drilling as your ball?
Second, forget this "I need more strength and a higher backswing". Bull. Not with today's balls.
Also, what weight is your absolute? Are you left or right? Don't give up yet.
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