as important as the type of ball everyone is recommending, the surface on that ball will make all the difference in the world. a bvp series of ball would be fine except for the fact that the ball snaps too hard on the backend, right ? no problem. scuff off the polish and wetsand the ball very fine( at least 1,000 grit or even higher ). this will cuase the ball to burn some energy as it goes down the lane and will tone down the backend reaction.