I always send the money first. I figure the seller is already taking a hit when he sells the ball, at least this way he doesn't have to come up with shipping costs.
I have the crappiest luck with the post office. Seems like they send all my mail by pony express. Got a deal pending with Jkiser, thought the money order would have been there by last Friday, sent it out tuesday, (St Louis to Texas).
Having been on the board a little while I've got a pretty good idea who is safe to deal with. If you do enough transactions, you are bound to have a bad experience. I've only been ripped off once on a deal. Michigan of all places.
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~~~SrK - Have balls, will travel
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