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Charles

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kbowler11..........CAUTION
« on: December 04, 2006, 11:56:19 AM »
On 11/27, I was contacted by this user and a price was agreed to on a 6-Ball bowling bag. He said he needed my information to send the money order since he didn't have a PayPal account. I provided him this information on 11/28 and he said he would get the MO right out. Being as how this user had no previous history that I could find and had only been omn this site sincwe 10/06, I pm'd him the next day, 11/29, just to ask if the MO had gone out as he said it had, He pm'd me back and I quote:

"I haven't forgot about you and I know I read your email but I had other stuff on my mind, I have a very demanding job, but to answer your question yes I will send you the money order tomorrow"

OK, so I assume it is going out right? I had asked him to let me know when the MO went out and I had heard nothing. I let it go until 12/4 when I had received no MO so again I message him and I get this reply:

"Sorry life got a little hectic It'll go out today"

Obviously feeling strung along by a new and suspicious user, I replied with a half-hearted reply saying simply:

"grrrrrrrrrr"

I receive this reply from him:

"I really hope your joking because I really don't need this bag."

OK, feeling frustrated from this users messages and failure to uphold his end of the deal, I replied:

"Look. You have told me time and time again that you have sent or will send the money immediately. I refuse to be strung along. You can check my profile and this site for my reputation as I never do business that way. If you don't need or want the bag, fine. All you had to do was say so and call the deal off. I would have posted the transaction history inthe feddback forum and that would have been the end of it. Don't expect me to to feel like you are doing me a favor because transactions are done because both parties are gaining something. I do not kid when it comes to transactions. I have been on this and other sites for years and have never had a bad transaction from my end. You have been in here for right at 2 months and have 6 posts, How am I suppose to trust someone with no history and continues to feed me more stories about things that come up? You do what you want. If we complete the transaction, fine. If not, I will do as I would before and post the information in the forums. I am profiting all of $20 so you tell me if the hassle woukd be worth it if you were on my end? Let me know either way."

To which he replied:

"Then let's just call it off and just because I've only been on here a couple of months doesn't mean I don't have a positive history. I have done a number of deals on this site since then and never had a problem. I'm sorry that my problems have caused you an inconvenience, but if you can't have a little patience then so be it."


Now, I firmly have no belief that this user had any intention of purchasing this bag. I do not know this user and thank goodness I have lost nothing from this deal. I think a week is more than enough time to send out a money order if you say it will go out IMMEDIATELY!!  Bottom line is as a longtime member/user on this site and others, everyone should know to be careful when dealing with this cat!!! Thanks and have a nice day.....
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Charles

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Re: kbowler11..........CAUTION
« Reply #16 on: December 05, 2006, 09:31:21 AM »
Good Idea tek........
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Re: kbowler11..........CAUTION
« Reply #17 on: December 05, 2006, 09:40:41 AM »
tks Charles, my idea and someone else's expertise right?
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Charles

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Re: kbowler11..........CAUTION
« Reply #18 on: January 02, 2007, 07:25:40 AM »
ttt
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Re: kbowler11..........CAUTION
« Reply #19 on: January 02, 2007, 08:30:17 AM »
at least you got replies from him. I have messaged him numerous times since he provided his info without a reply!
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Re: kbowler11..........CAUTION
« Reply #20 on: January 02, 2007, 08:49:36 AM »
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trust and repetition is earned not given, at least in my world. I have had several deals where the buyer has sent a MO for equipment, and most of the time it is agreed that the item of interest is set aside for a week on hold for that person, after a week and no check it goes back on the "block". I have done other deals after phone conversations or previous deals I have stuck my neck out and shipped a ball B receiving the funds, I've been a good reader of personalities in the past and I'm sure I'll get burned sooner or later.

 From my up bringing, when you give your word it is binding as a signed document, but today it seems that does not apply in all cases. There are several on here I have seen make promises or give the impression they are going to consummate a deal, then do not. I have made notes of those and keep it in a file, they respond to one of my ads I tell them up front, here's the price take it or leave it, show the money, for those just mentioned it is Paypal, I'm not holding stock on a maybe based off of their previous track record. Time is money and so is information, I do not mean to sound harsh, but there are two things in this world that I have no tolerance for one being a  liar and the other a thief.

I think a list of Beware of Time Bandits list should be published for all sellers to be aware of. If your name appears on the list it would take 3 flawless deals to be removed and your "minor" repetition restored for this site, only the seller can give the ok for a smooth transaction to earn the points to be removed from the Time Bandit list.
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I read your age in your profile and its amazing that most of us 50 somethings are brought up the same way as your word is something to stand behind. But it seems younger people think its OK to put something off as THATS the way it is in today's world...

If someone says they are going to send or sell, then they should stand behind their word. It only takes one or 2 negatives and their reputation is suspect.

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Re: kbowler11..........CAUTION
« Reply #21 on: January 02, 2007, 08:54:44 AM »
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If someone says they are going to send or sell, then they should stand behind their word. It only takes one or 2 negatives and their reputation is suspect.

Shipper


AGREED! Check my feedback on this site in my profile AND on ebay. My ebay fedback is 100% with 269 positive feedback left by 232 members.
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