It's not one bowler's responsibility to make sure the shot stays nice for those around them. Sure, there are definitely circumstances where it makes sense for everyone to get on board and play the lanes a certain way with certain types of equipment (or to avoid other types of equipment), see USBC Open Championships team event, PBA events, and other long-format tourneys. In those circumstances, it kind of sucks to have someone blowing the lane up and making things difficult if not impossible for everyone else to score.
With that being said, that doesn't mean the person doing it is doing something wrong. Hell, the pros intentionally try to trash their opponents' lines during practice. It sounds like this guy's 804 helped his team dominate, which means the strategy (and I'm not sure you can call it that since it doesn't sound like he did it with designs on shimwrecking the other team) worked. What he did was perfectly within the rules. To me, the guy who threatened him sounds like a total d-bag who, if I condoned violence, should be taken out to the parking lot himself!