Thanks for the replies. The 2 balls I am using have the following measurements:
MF 4 3/4 (1/4 forward and 3/8 left lateral)
RF 4 7/8 (1/4 forward and 1/2 right lateral)
Thumb 1/4 reverse and 0 lateral
and
MF 4 3/4 (1/8 forward and 3/8 left lateral)
RF 4 7/8 (1/8 forward and 1/2 right lateral)
Thumb 5/16 reverse and 0 lateral
What suggestions for change? Also, by deathgrip, you mean squeezing right? If so, wouldn't I want more forward in the thumb to be able to relax?