Again all, thanks for the help on this topic... An update...
I got a MoRich Sahara, Drilled it 4x4 - one problem I had with this is the top weight, had to drill a fairly substantial balance hole and deep-drill the fingers to get the side/finger weight legal. Might have take more out, see later comments.
First off, this ball does almost exactly what I want. On a tracked out house shot (Sunday night, after 2 leagues) I could play anywhere outside the oil, even 2 board (a first for reactive). Once I got the speed down (this ball is VERY speed sensitive) I hit the pocket over 30 times in a row.... strikes, 10's and 7's.
The ball handles soft speed much better than oil or to much speed. Tug the ball into the oil, you'll be looking at a bucket at best, tug with to much speed you'll have a washout. Soft speed within +/- 2 boards of target resulted in high flush at worst, and it handled the tug a lot better than the pitch, which convinces me this ball will not over-react on the drys.... It also works great for spares, won't need to use plastic for 10 pins any more.
There's still almost an ounce of side left in it, I may drill that back a half or more to get it into a roll earlier so I can use more speed. This ball should devastate the early games of the shift with fresh back ends.
Thanks again to all! I post again after tomorrow night's league...
A note to ecco, tried the XXX sanded to 1000 with finesse, still over-reacts outside, going to sand it back down and stick it in the garage...
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Dang, another stone 5....