Aussie, spoon is correct. Use the center of the bridge for the center of the grip. The ball may not have more than 1 oz. of either side, finger/thumb or top/bottom.
A "quazi" thumbhole may be drilled in the ball, in which case the bowler must be able to put his thumb in it and grip the ball with his fingers and thumb in the ball.
If this is the case, measure the center of his grip the same as with a normal grip. With the quazi thumbhole, the bowler may now use up to 3 oz. top/bottom weight. =:^D