So I have spent a lot of time researching and talking to the local pro. Apparently my Arson flares a ton, and that is part of the problem. I have also found that rolling a 13# ball is part of the problem. Many of the 13# balls (across multiple brands) have the same type of core in them, so they are not really different in diff.
As of right now, I have two possible solutions given by the pro. Move up to a 14# ball to stick with Hammer (Vibe or the Nail). Or, stay with a 13# ball and get a Storm Fringe.
I really like hammer, and I love the way the Nail looks, but I am not sure I can throw with a heavier ball due to the way I cock my wrist when I throw. Ugh... I never know throwing a 13 pounder would cause me such problem!