You can try getting the pin farther from your PAP, somewhere in the 6 inch range. The thing with this type of drilling is that it will clear the heads very well and use all of its energy in the backend, where you already said after one game your Xception is a little bit too strong.
The other option is to go with a pin on your VAL (vertical Axis line). I did this with my Ebonite Bash in order to tame down a older wood lane house with a dried up shorter oil pattern on it.
Being that we dont actually know your pap its hard to say for sure how you should drill the ball. Just know this, you might have to, either way you decide to drill the ball, learn to change your release a little bit. Even though my Bash, which is drilled weak, is weak, i still have too much hand to keep it on the lanes with my normal shot. This is why I taught myself to use multiple different hand releases, in order to kill revs and hook.
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