That's what I was thinking also. Didn't want to say anything to the person because I didn't want to seem like a dick to him or anything. I've been looking around somewhat since our season started in November-Early December.
I'll say this. Like you mentioned earlier, while the talent for your area depends on where you are, you may find yourself looking outside your local area for the challenge, at least to better yourself. Here's an example.
We had a scratch match play league in our area, which was double elimination. Most everyone that was in that league with me I either bowled with on my youth league on Saturdays, in my high school league, or in our travel league. So we all knew each other's game. And in a town like Omaha at the time, where we had at least 22 different houses at the time, we knew who was in the elite with us.
Enter this new guy into the area, who turned out to be on average 30 - 40 pins better than all of us. He was from Sioux City - 100 miles north of us. Smaller town, smaller group of youth bowlers, so he came down looking for a bigger challenge, while we were looking for a challenge as well. Both of us got what we wanted.
He bowled with us through that eliminator league, and after that, I didn't see him for another 3 years; happened to be at a collegiate tournament; me at Nebraska, he at Ball State.
As far as what your father said, he is also partially right. If there is a dream college you're wanting to get into for bowling, don't put that out of your sights, but also keep your options open and let them also try to find you. You'll see a lot of scouts (read: coaches) at a lot of the Jr. Gold tournaments, so that is a place to showcase who you are and what you have to offer.
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I was talking to my father about it also and he said to let the colleges come to you. In my honest opinion, I don't I am that good to be noticed by colleges and stuff like that. Don't mean to drag me down or anything. I honestly don't know the rules for that either. I don't know when they could actually talk to me and interact with me in general. It would be cool but don't want to get the hopes up for one to come to me.
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