Technically, fromt he way I have seen "Buy it Now" auctions run, once someone has put a bid on the item for less than the buy-it-now price, the Buy-it-now option disappears. The auction must proceed as a regular auction.
I did buy a ball on ebay once when no one had bid on it for 3-4 days and I was interested and emailed the buyer. We agreed on a price and he took it off ebay.
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