DJ,
A 5" pin is fairly far away from your PAP for core. I'm not sure that is the problem. The SS is not a weak ball, but it certainly needs dry to make the turn.
I have not noticed any break-in period with my Lm/L balls. When they hook, they HOOK. I haven't used one yet, but it is supposed to much stronger than a Neptune and in the range of the Cherry Vibe (from what I have hear d the CV is stronger than designed.) My Buzz is much stronger than my Hornet and my Hornet is stronger than my friend's Neptune.
As far as I know, the SS goes longer than the Buzz with more backend, both on "relatively" medium oil but definitely hitting some dry.
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