I joined a team a couple of years ago that had a bowler go AWOL several times. The night I joined, he had been out two weeks at that point and owed for six or seven weeks total (teammates had been paying for him to avoid the forfeit).
So a couple of months later, I'm walking back from throwing my first shot of the night, and look up and there's that guy talking to one of my teammates, and getting hot about something. He storms out and my teammate later tells me the guy came that night, with his stuff but still without any money, and demanded to bowl.
Some people just don't get it, ever, no matter what the subject.
Jess