Everybody wants to be a winner or at least be a part of a winner. Why do you think there are so many Yankee fans? People like winners.
As far as the leagues in town, it doesn't seem like there is clear transgression to follow as to what the top flight leagues are. There are only 5 scratch leagues that I know of, 3 open and 2 women's and one of these leagues is capped. I would like to try the most prestigious league in town, but I can't even tell which one that is. I have bowled in all 3 open leagues, but really don't think any of these houses the very best bowlers in town. The biggest is a trios league, but even that one lacks several top 25 bowlers in town. I like the idea of the travel league because that eliminates a house bowler from dominating, but that league needs to be built back up. I would like to see every house find a significant sponsor and put enough money into the league in hopes of drawing out the very best competition. Make it a showcase of the city's best.
For me, family and funds limit my participation. I have been bowling in scratch leagues for several years now and have not finished first in any of them until this year. I never complained when I got beat, I just tried harder next time.