I'm a woman back into bowling after an 18-year absence. Bowled in the summer and carried a 157 average. Still using my ancient Columbia Yellow Dot. I know I need a new ball. My old ball just doesn't finish. I'm right-handed, throw a finger tip, and my ball hooks a bit into the pocket. Just doesn't "hit like a truck" as I've seen on here. I've been throwing a 14 pound ball. I'm 55 years old, so I can't go much heavier. I haven't bought a bowling ball in over 20 years and I'm stumped as to what to buy. Our lanes are medium oily. Any help would be appreciated.