Thanks for the advice all! Glad I'm asking this early on in the ball's use. Here's my to do list I've been making:
1) Go to store and buy micro fiber towels
2) Purchase a good cleaner and clean right after (or soon after!) bowling. Looking at the clean n dull here: http://www.bowling.com/products/powerhouse-clean-n--dull-quart.htm
3) Purchase pads to use every 9 - 12 games. Looking at these: http://www.bowling.com/products/abralon-sanding-pad-4000-grit.htm
4) Visit pro shop about further resurfacing when necessary (usually 25 - 40ish games).
5) Kick some @ss on my bowling league!!!
Let me know if I'm missing anything. Thanks agains!!
Back in the day, there was a great band called Public Enemy. One of their biggest songs was titled "Don't Believe the Hype!" Good advice, especially when it comes to cleaning your bowling ball. There are a couple of users on here who seemingly own stock in bowling ball cleaner companies.
As Nails and Mainzer have said, simple cleaners work just fine. Many people, me included, make our own cleaner using 33% H20, 33% Simple Green, 33% Isoproyl Alcohol (preferrably 90% or stronger). Look up what components make up a good all-purpose cleaner and you'll see why that formula works.
Oil removal? Use a microfiber towel before every shot. Use the above cleaner before bagging the balls after bowling. When you can moisten your thumb, rub it on the ball and not get a good "squeak" and friction between skin and ball, time to de-oil. If you see your ball doesn't react as it did new, time to de-oil. Do the thumb test and you will be alerted that its time to de-oil long before you see less reaction. Safe and easy way to de-oil? Go to the pro shop and have your ball put in the Rejuvenator. Safe and easy way to de-oil and save money? Put ball in dishwasher, no soap, no heated dry, no sanitize. Run one normal cycle (90 minutes). Like new. Wife won't let you do that (she should, won't hurt dishwasher at all), put ball in bucket of hot water with some Dawn dish soap and let soak. Wipe oil off surface of ball, repeat until you don't see an oil sheen on top of water and ball feels clean.
Resurfacing or maintaining factory surface? You can carry some Abralon pads around but that is just a superficial fix. Factories build up to OOB surface in steps. This is best left, ideally, to a pro shop with a Haus machine to simulate how the factory finishes a ball with various grit pads. At the very least, this should be down by somebody who knows their way around a ball spinner.
Unlike some of the advice that you have gotten that is just re-gurgitated from bowling magazine articles and print from advertisements, the methods above are real world tested, real world approved, and real world effective. Choice is and always will be yours.