In the second half of my first YABA season last year, I figured out/realized exactly what you said. I think it helped me, because when I don't get a strike, I can easily figure out why, and what to do to change that. But as you say, a lot of the people in my league complain and whine when they don't get a strike, and I usually say "Well geez, you came up so high you barely hit the 3 pin, you should have a split! Consider yourself lucky!". Then they usually give me a dirty look and say nothing.
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-Andy
Brunswick Unofficial Amateur Staffer