Won't edit what I originally posted . . but I wanted to add the disclaimer and admit that I'm in the wrong here. I think it's sad (personally if nothing else) that the game and the stigma is such that people go straight to negativity before hearing the whole story, and I'm definitely guilty of it here. Apologies.
I ran across this on another site, and while I can understand the poster's enthusiasm, it's unfortunate. The phrase "FINALLY got my FIRST 300," to me just represents everything that's wrong with bowling. It's like it's a rite of passage now instead of an accomplishment. I know we've beat the horse for years over this, but how do we appreciate the score or rather appreciate the bowler's feelings without reinforcing this kind of thinking? How do we change the trend? I remember being ecstatic about my first 300, 800, and all the rest after that, and you're lying if you say honor scores aren't still fun, despite the actual circumstances. You definitely don't want to dampen someone's enthusiasm, but I guess what also gets me is when people say "first," like they just naturally expect more will come. I understand saying first if you have several, it's just a descriptive term, but saying first when you just have one SEEMS arrogant, if unintentionally, though that's the culture. I don't think they're saying it to be cocky, there just honestly aren't that many people out there who just have one. It seems like people either don't have any or have several, so it's perfectly logical to expect more once you get one, but it's just a disturbing trend.