I don't ever want to come across like I havent done any of this, if anything it took me till the better part of last season to realize it! Hence the reason I said we all know we need to get better!
I know I still have a ton to learn, and I have been bowling 25+ years...seen alot of changes, and its gotten to a point now that there are so many variables to put together to score well, especially in tournament settings. It has gotten to a point where in some cases it is more difficult to put it all together for me now than it was say 15 years ago, the game was much simpler then, a couple options for balls, relying on physical skill more than anything.
But in regards to stubborness, we all are guilty of falling into thinking we gotta have the latest hook monster at some point. Even here in league last year, for the better part of the season I got the most use out of a AMF Smoke, and had my choice of where to play-granted it was league but that lets you know right there our volume was pretty low. You can use upper end stuff if you like, but the shot wont last long, id rather ball down and take care of what little shot I had, spread my scoring over 3 games as opposed to the opposite, which was score big first game, then struggle next 2 lmao...