Some good points Charlest.
I still can’t blame the parents though. As a parent, I would have probably offered to take him to the bowling alley myself. That way I could meet some of the people myself if it was that important to him.
All we hear on the news though is bad news about the predators that visit websites preying on our children. I still can’t blame the parents for making a snap judgment and saying no. It just is not worth taking a chance.
For those of us that have been on this site a while, we usually have a good idea about the type of person we are dealing with. His parents don’t use the site, all of us are complete strangers. One post won’t change their mind about the caliber of people their son would be associating with.
Like you, I’ve invited ball reviewers into my home and I have also been invited into the homes of various people across the United States. I’ve met some of the greatest people in the world that way.
On the other hand, if a new poster came on and wanted to visit, I would be awful leery about inviting him until he had been on the site long enough for me to form an opinion.
Don’t mean to ramble but, unlike Rags, I usually have trouble expressing myself. Hope it makes sense.
On edit, even though we tend to think the worst of people, in this instance, you can't afford to be wrong once.
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~~~SrK - Have balls, will travel
Edited on 12/19/2003 4:14 PM