This topic is based on another about taking lessons for free or pay for them. I think that post is deleted coz it was gone when I finished writing my reply to it!
Now here is my post;
I would like to look from a different point of view.
Free is not always better. We, humans usually do not show enough respect to what we have for free. It is not only for bowling but for our lives. I don't remember the topic but someone talked about give away / free bowling balls and what had happened afterwards. Story was something like; He found many of the balls which he had given away, trashed, given away or sold to another one etc.. I came across my self with such an irritating situation!
If you're gonna pay for a lesson, first you will search for best coach around. Than most probably you will be listening to him/her with all your attention and get whatever you can from him/her. You will be loyal to your lesson hours with your whole equipment cleaned and ready. You won't want to miss anything and feel fully responsible because you are paying.
For the person coaching you will feel more responsible either. He/she will be prepared and concentrated to you because he/she is paid.
I've been coaching for an amateur bowling club for 2 years. Beginners must take lessons and pay. After 8 to 16 hours fundamentals, they are allowed to participate clubs free and discounted practice hours. From my experience, bowlers who pay for the lessons and/or practice hours appears to be more responsible for what they are doing. Focusing on their game and practice plan instead of chatting and doing other silly things..
Tragic but it is really hard to find someone who will show full responsibility without paying. Tragic, but it is human nature..
I'm coaching only three people for free now. And I don't think I'm gonna add one more..
If you can find someone who will coach you for free, go for it. But make it long run, scheduled and with a proper practice plan.
What do you guys think? Sawbones?
Regards,
Burak Natal