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ThongPrincess

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Looks like it may be bye-bye bowling
« on: September 20, 2008, 02:26:12 PM »
I have toyed with the idea of giving it all up, but planned to just cut back to 2 leagues and see what happens.  I thought I was bowling Mondays & Wednesdays.  

Monday is a sport league and they thought they had 20 teams, one of them I was on.  A week ago Monday it started.  I was the only one on my team to show up.  Phone calls are made and it turns out one of the bowlers "forgot" his current Monday league didn't end until November   The other bowler is his friend and decides he is not bowling.  So I am left with 2 blinds.  To complicate things two other bowlers on 2 different teams become no shows and one no one can find a valid phone number for one.  Another bowler decides to quit so we are short 5 bowlers.

I get my daughter to bowl last week.  They take the other solo bowler and fill the team that has the bowler no one can get a hold of.  My daughter's job prevents her from making the 36 week commitment, even with my paying the spot.  They also made it very clear they are not going to carry a blind team the whole season.  So despite being in the league 5 years, it is looking like I am squeezed out.  The only opening is with 2 very low average bowlers and we would not be competitive in any way and at $30/week I would be insane to take the spot.  I have already put out $210 (3 weeks for my daughter and 4 for me)plus sport upgrade.

Wednesday I have a team, but I'm not sure how many weeks I can go before I kill one of my teammates.  One just never stops talking, mainly whining about how every shot he tosses should be a strike and he was ripped off.  The other likes to talk down to me like I am an idiot, then complain behind my back about my bowling.  The final bowler is a notorious sandbagger.  I may make it through the season, but it is going to be the longest 36 week week league I have bowled.

So if I am not around much, not that I post ridiculously often, it is because either:

1) I am not bowling
2) I did kill one of my teammates
3) I had to be put in an institution due to fighting the urge to choke the crap out of one of my teammates

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Edited on 9/21/2008 1:44 AM
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Re: Looks like it may be bye-bye bowling
« Reply #16 on: September 28, 2008, 12:28:42 AM »
Had to drop the old teams and reshuffle again this season, TP. Two new teams and a new house for this season.  Too bad you're not in Atlanta, but then you'd be dealing with a teammate who constantly complains about how he doesn't deserve strikes...
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Re: Looks like it may be bye-bye bowling
« Reply #17 on: September 28, 2008, 02:13:54 AM »
LOL so it is the mirror image of my teammate.  About 10 - 11 years and I'll be looking to get out of CA - I'll have the magic number for retirement with 90% of salary and full medical, dental & vision.
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Re: Looks like it may be bye-bye bowling
« Reply #18 on: September 29, 2008, 01:09:09 AM »
We don't get in that situation to begin with, we pick our teammates or dont' bowl to start with.  If we don't mix then we don't reform the team next season.  Wed league we've been together for 5 years both summer and winter.  Friday (different center different team mates) we've been together for 3 years winter.  

So I would suggest that you move to a different center.  Get an entire different perspective and atmosphere.  

Erin

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Re: Looks like it may be bye-bye bowling
« Reply #19 on: September 30, 2008, 09:37:59 AM »
quote:
We don't get in that situation to begin with, we pick our teammates or dont' bowl to start with.  
Erin


It is nice you have that luxury, some of us do not.  The bowling friends I have do not bowl sport leagues and do not bowl 9PM leagues.  So I guess, I should just not bowl.  That attitude is just what is going to grow our sport, right?
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Re: Looks like it may be bye-bye bowling
« Reply #20 on: September 30, 2008, 11:24:57 AM »
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It is nice you have that luxury, some of us do not.  The bowling friends I have do not bowl sport leagues and do not bowl 9PM leagues.  So I guess, I should just not bowl.  That attitude is just what is going to grow our sport, right?




I'd say it helps the sport grow about as much as bowling in a tough league, being miserable with the "teammates", and griping about it later on the internet.
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