Still think if women are allowed to continue women's only events, then men should have the exact same right. Its all about equality right?

It should be, but it isn't.

We have a local tournament where even the handicap is adjusted for women.

Women get 90% of 220 with a maximum handicap of 400
Men get 80% of 220 with a maximum handicap of 250

This is a five game tournament, needless to say, the females tend to do well in the cash list.

Still think if women are allowed to continue women's only events, then men should have the exact same right. Its all about equality right?

First, lets not forget that as a group man are better bowlers than women.  There are a lot of women bowlers who can compete with the men, but they are the extreme outliers, not the norm.  We have limits on divisions to protect those in the lower division.  I have no problem with letting the women bowl in the mens tournament if they want.  For the life of me I can't understand the argument against it.  All I hear is guys saying that men should then be able to bowl in the womens tournament.  Every sport that has divisions allows players from the lower division to step up in class, but not to drop down.  I am 65 years old, and I can bowl against the kids if I want, but they can't bowl against me in a senior only tourney.  I don't see anyone arguing against that one way street.

First, lets not forget that as a group man are better bowlers than women.  There are a lot of women bowlers who can compete with the men, but they are the extreme outliers, not the norm.  We have limits on divisions to protect those in the lower division.  I have no problem with letting the women bowl in the mens tournament if they want.  For the life of me I can't understand the argument against it.  All I hear is guys saying that men should then be able to bowl in the womens tournament.  Every sport that has divisions allows players from the lower division to step up in class, but not to drop down.  I am 65 years old, and I can bowl against the kids if I want, but they can't bowl against me in a senior only tourney.  I don't see anyone arguing against that one way street.

Well and your first statement is in and of itself one of their gripes.  They think everything should be fair and equal, and that statement is neither.  It IS however, true.  There's a lot of women that are better than a significant amount of men, but by and large, like you said, the men are better.  I have no desire to bowl in a women's tournament, but if they would argue it from a more logical, objective standpoint, I'd be ok with it.  It's just people using whatever angle they can to push their agenda.  Just like them wanting to be cops.  A 5'5" 135lb woman out in the field is nothing but a danger to themselves and everyone else.  It has NOTHING to do with gender, and EVERYTHING to do with size and ability.  I'm 6', but I'm a toothpick, no way in hell I should be a cop whether I wanted to or not unless I was pushing paperwork.  But nooo, they don't argue it like that, it's discrimination and sexism . . Come on people, we should be smarter than this by now.  This is teenage high school stuff.