First My Opinion. A Strike is a Strike.

Over the years I notice that most bowlers remember the Brooklyns thrown against them (causing them to lose a match or game) vs the brooklyns they have thrown to win.

And the memory only seems to be of ones that are in the last 3 frames. I have seen a guy complain about someone throwing brooklyn in 1st ball of the 10th but seems to forget his own 2 brooklyns at the beginning of the game.

Same here.

The only brooklyn strike I can honestly remember was the one I had in the 6th frame on my way to my first perfect game in 2000.
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Does it really matter?

Maybe it's because I haven't been playing too long, but when I see someone go Brooklyn a few times in a game, I just shrug it off. Sometimes you're lucky, and sometimes you're not.

I once threw 5 strikes that went Brooklyn. It was the most annoyed I'd ever felt while playing bowling. Probably because I knew the other team might not like it too much.

It is annoying when you are battling and someone from the other team makes a horrible shot and carries it, while you smoke the rack and flush a solid 9 or 8, but it's just a game.  

It will all even itself out in the end.  You might lose by 4 on a questionable carry, but you'll win by 1 on the same thing eventually.

As someone else already mentioned, the only Brooklyn or Jersey as some people call us left handed folk crossing over, in my career that I remember was strike #12 for my one and only sanctioned 300 game.  

Cut me some slack though, I was 15, averaging 150, throwing a urethane ball, and just praying to keep the ball on the lanes because my legs became jello.

Best shot I've ever thrown as far as I am concerned!
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Ahhh Disco Biscuits!

When there was no other shot I have lined up Brooklyn to win scratch matches, too me a strike is a strike and listening to the other better bowler whine just makes it all that much better.

Because a Win is a Win!!!

My most memorable Brooklyn strike was in the 12th frame for my first 300 game, my only "excuse" for throwing it so bad was I had to wait about 5 minutes(and that is not exaggerating) for the ball return between balls 11 and 12.