Funny you should bring this up about now. My hubby has started commenting on my "groupies" - the folks who, when they see me at tournaments and stuff, do what they can to hang around me. I have noticed it, but haven't really paid much attention to it until recently. I find it kinda embarrassing, but hubby says I should be flattered.
There is one local bowler who recently has moved from juniors to adult. He is a good example of what you are referring to. One time I was talking with him (as I do ANY of the kids that want to talk bowling), and another youngster came up to say hi to me. This guy told the other kid to bug off - he started talking to me first. Needless to say, I corrected him.
When the scratch level ladies turn out, there are a few of the "older" gents that usually show up as well. They definitely like associating with the higher level bowlers, but are generally friendly to all.
Some people just feel that it truly isn't what you know - it's who you know.
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