I would make a trip out for a practice session and focus on 2 items (notice: neither of them are score). 1) Timing. There is nothing that will throw off everything you do more than timing. Personally, I tend to get the ball moving a bit early, resulting in early timing. This crops up a whole range of issues (many of which you mentioned above). When making a change, I typically try to exagerate the change, so it has a better change of sticking (seems to help with me). On a 5 step approach, don't start the ball moving until step 2 1/2. On a 4 step approach, step 1 1/2. The idea, generate "later" timing. 2) Release behind the ball. To improve staying behind th eball, I like to envision my hand on the inside of the ball (palm facing outwards). I will even throw a number of shots this way (essentially generating a back-up ball rotation) to groove in the feeling. BTW, this is a wonderful way to flatten out a shot for corner pins! When I go back to throwing regular shots, I try to keep the "hand inside" feel until it passes my thigh (whether that actually happens or not is another issue).. Depending on the roll I'm trying to generate, I will also work on trying to move from the inside (9 oclock on the dial) to the back of the ball (5 oclock) during the release. I never end up actually rolling the ball end over end, but helps against chicken winging and coming around early.
These may or may not work for you (some suggestions to think about at least), but seem to be leading causes when I start throwing the ball "bad". Its amazing how much more confidence you have when you feel like you are throwing the ball well.
Good luck in sorting out and good luck at nationals!
Scott