I had the same problem, with callousing.
I went from 0, 0,...
to 3/16 Reverse, and 1/8 left lateral.
Without seeing you bowl, I can bet you have late timing, late thumb release.
Are squeezing the ball to hold on to it, and are topping the ball a bit.
I'd see a coach, and have some video shot of your game, with slow-mo of the release.
Deadbait, is pretty dead on.
Hard to figure out what's wrong without seeing you bowl...or at least see your hand.
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Duke Harding
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