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bucsfan713

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Lack of confidence
« on: May 19, 2008, 04:19:51 AM »
Well, I have done it again.  I just bowled Va state tournament.  I didn't get in the scratch events because I don't think I am that good of a bowler.  Last year I averaged a 208 and this year, my high average is a 219.  I went and bowled a pretty decent 3 game set.  My scratch score for all events would have me sitting in 4th place right now.  Does anybody else do this?  Do you not think you are as good as other people think you are?  It has cost me money and a couple of tournaments now.
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tenpin477

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Re: Lack of confidence
« Reply #1 on: May 19, 2008, 07:11:27 PM »
You average 219 and dont think your good enough to bowl scratch. I bowl scratch in everything I enter now, I like the competition.

bucsfan713

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Re: Lack of confidence
« Reply #2 on: May 20, 2008, 07:26:32 AM »
I just look at my game and I know there are spares here and there that I should pick up.  Also, I tug the ball every once in a while.  I don't really know how to explain it, I just feel that my game can be so much better.  I need to be bowling scratch because I can hang with the other guys, I just need to tell myself that.
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dizzyfugu

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Re: Lack of confidence
« Reply #3 on: May 20, 2008, 09:23:28 AM »
You are as strong or as weak as you think you are. I also just have a mere 180 average, but I also enter tournaments, nonetheless, much like tenpin477.
I know that I cannot win the tournament, realistically, but I can bowl under pressure. It took me a long way (2 years, at least) to overcome the typical shyness and nervousness you feel when you play with 220+ average players.

But I learned that this should not intimidate you. You only learn to play in this environment if you expose yourself to it. And then, when you are on the approach, it is just the same shot you do all over again in training. There is no difference between the shot you make in tournament or in training. It is just the pressure you put yourself under, and the doubt that this time it could go all wrong.

So I do not let this kind of thoughts creep up, I'd rather focus on the ball reaction and my overall delivery performance, keep an eye on my opponents ball reaction (not so much on the scores, just how they play and whether they run into trouble) and try to have a good time. Even if I score low I am still content if I know where my mistake had been or what hampered my game.

Just do not expect too much beforehand. Rather try to play well, and be happy afterwards if things went right It is a perspective thing, and most bowling troubles are created in our minds by ourselves, or by ignorance.

And, finally, to put it short: "Think weak - be weak".
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tenpin477

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Re: Lack of confidence
« Reply #4 on: May 20, 2008, 02:00:07 PM »
I also dont feel who im bowling with intimidates me. On a good day I am more than capable of competing in a scratch event, of course if I perform like my most recent outing, and only go +7 for 5 games I dont have much of a chance.

To Note Im only averaging 199 this year.

You just have to believe in yourself.

Fluff E Bunnie

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Re: Lack of confidence
« Reply #5 on: May 20, 2008, 06:24:07 PM »
I used to have some confidence up until recently bowling in some leagues with some really high avg people and I hear a lot of criticism of my style now.  It's kind of bummed me out.
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