All I can do is sympathize with you really. I have a house here that I can't figure out either. I can get pretty close, but like you say, just not quite totally there. What kind of a pattern is it? It doesn't sound like you're playing a super tight line, but tighter than what most house patterns require. I don't have the kind of backends that would allow me to play that line, or the kind of length to get a stronger ball down the lane. I could do it with practice, probably, but it'd never be a preferred line, or even a backup line. Wood or synthetic house? Length of pattern? I'm not going to try suggesting anything, cause if I knew how to attack a bland pattern like that, I'd be doing it, and I also don't want to insult your intelligence, as I'm sure you're more experienced than I am by far.
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HAH! I don't know ANYBODY now!
Being in adult leagues teaches you many things.
1. You're not on top anymore, but there are a lot more people that suck worse than you do now.
2. The myth about the youths having an easier shot is NOT TRUE. I'd have an entire ring collection if it was.
3. Drunk adults are a lot funnier than drunk youths.