I agree with the we win as a team, we lose a team philosophy. The only time a team member can blame anyone else for losing a game is if they shot 300. I had a similar situation happen a few years back. We were bowling a team, and I needed the first hit in the tenth for us to win the game. Mind you I was working on a six bagger, with my only none strike being a ten pin in the 3rd frame that I converted. I proceed to shred the hole, and stuff a solid 8 pin. I picked it up and struck for 258. Well the team captain was absolutely livid and blamed me for losing the game. Saying that if I struck on that ball, we would have won. My average was like 235, so I beat my average anyway. His was like 220, and he shot something like 153, yet he blamed me for losing. Go figure.