Two ideas:
First, I'd check Moon57's suggestion. It can be that the poor thumb exit is just the symptom of a release flaw that has its origins much, much earlier, e. g. a timing problem like fast feet, a bent upper body, lack of slide, etc. This can all result in a release where the ball is much earlier than the rest of the player, and naturally you have to cling to the ball or top it, just get everything in sync again - but with little power and lots of deviation potential.
Secondly, I'd check with which part of your thumb you are actually holding the ball. Is it the thumb "pad" (first digit) or do you hold the ball with your thumb's base, at the thumb hole rim? The latter can force you to apply a Kung Fu death grip, cranking the thumb. In this case, I'd suggest to experiment with tape to make the hole tighter (with a comfortable span that allows you to hold the ball with your flat thumb inside of the hole), or even consider a different hole shape.
Good luck!
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