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Gene J Kanak

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What's the right thing to do here?
« on: February 23, 2005, 12:27:41 AM »
Here goes:

Traded a ball to another user. The ball was in, what I considered to be, good-very good condition. There were two or three 3-4 inch, thin, shallow scratches, all of which would've come out easily with a light resurfacing. I disclosed the info about these scratches to the buyer. Besides those marks, there were no other noticeable marks on the ball.

The buyer and I completed a trade. I assumed everything was fine. Then, earlier this week, I get a message from the user saying that, without looking at the ball, he traded it to another user. That user claimed that the ball was "completely trashed". He claimed it was peppered with scratches, so bad, in fact, that his pro shop guy claimed that there was nothing that he could do to fix them.

Knowing the condition that I sent the ball out it, I was very surprised to hear all of this. Even though I know, in good conscience, that I sent a ball that was in fact good-very good condition, I was deeply troubled by this because I take great pride in my rep on this site.

Because of that, I offered to send back the ball that I received in trade and to pay to have my ball returned to me. The user claimed that it was no big deal and declined. Not satisfied, I contacted the recipient of my ball to ask for further info, and to request pictures of all of this unaccounted for damage. Unfortunately, he does not have any pics.

Anyone who's completed multiple trades on this site knows that misunderstandings about a ball's condition happen all of the time, but never to such an extreme level. Something went array somewhere.

My question is this, what do you do when something like this happens?

This has really bothered me. I've done business with several people on here, and I take pride in providing them with quality equipment. Was there anything more that I could've done here? Any comments or suggestions will be appreciated.

Thanks,

Gene J. Kanak
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jimensminger

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Re: What's the right thing to do here?
« Reply #1 on: February 23, 2005, 08:43:02 AM »
Gene,..sounds like you've done all you can do,..move on.
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Re: What's the right thing to do here?
« Reply #2 on: February 23, 2005, 08:48:14 AM »
My only comment is that the original person you did the trade with should have checked it out before sending it on.  If there were any problems, it would be easier to handle/figure out what happened at that point than it will be now.  I too think you've done all that you can do...
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Re: What's the right thing to do here?
« Reply #3 on: February 23, 2005, 09:17:10 AM »
Gene,

Seeing as how the person to whom you traded the ball had nothing to say about that ball, your end of the trade has been completed successfully. You have no control over what happened afterwards. You should not trouble yourself because you did all and more that could asked of you. Who really knows what may or may not have happened to that ball by accident? Who knows how it might have been shipped or what may have happened during that 2nd shipping?
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Re: What's the right thing to do here?
« Reply #4 on: February 23, 2005, 10:12:21 AM »
I wouldn't lose any sleep over it Gene! You completed your end of the deal. It's not your fault the person you traded to never looked at it b4 trading it with someone else!!
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Re: What's the right thing to do here?
« Reply #5 on: February 23, 2005, 10:20:58 AM »
You even offered to refund the money.. You did everything you could, they declined..
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Re: What's the right thing to do here?
« Reply #6 on: February 23, 2005, 10:32:06 AM »
I would bet the the original guy you traded with did not even look at the ball nor really care, there are some abusive users on here that 3 way trade all the time. They broker deals for what they really want and have the first guy alot of the times ship to the 3rd party that you did not even deal with. I would tell the 3rd party to take it up with the guy you made the deal and if thats not good enough tell them to hit the road.