Absolutely, start with the weaker ball. It sounds like your Total NV is too much even at the start really. Stick with something simple, controllable, and don't try to hit the ball. Stick with that weaker release.
And the good thing about avoiding throwing the Total NV is you won't have to worry about it sucking up the oil as that ball is prone to doing. (Man, these newer Ebonite covers can really burn up a pattern, I had that problem with The One and the Total NV)