My computer just fluked on me, hope this isn't redundant and repitive.
I understand the good points you people have.
Personally I felt last year he should've quit leagues and went pro and paid his dues until he got there.
The atmosphere and shot put out is very different between an amatuer and pro event. We've been to Seaford Del. Twice for a regional as a non-member.
He was much more relaxed the second time and did improve. First time he did so badly it was humilitating. But the atmosphere was new.
His thinking is get better at the amatuer and win more and build himself up morally and finacially first before turning Pro.
His dream is to be a pro, to me his way is the slower way and things could prevent him from ever pursuing his true dream.
He'll spend 2 hours driving one way to a sport amatuer event. Top prize may be 200-300. Amatuer is different atmosphere. He is getting better at the sport shot. He'll spend mucho bucks to go to the big paying amature events, has come in the top 10 at some. But he's not making enough to get him anywhere.
Last week he won $900, had his balls stolen, spent about $300 I think on entering 3 squads and some pots.
Oh well, it's his decison, Mom can't make it.
He has no sponsor, he doesn't make mucho bucks. He never got the college eperience that helps some guys get the sponsors.
We met a guy who is what you'd call an amatuer with deep pockets. He won more money in high games pots, brackets, placed more than once. Only got second but I bet in the end he made a lot more than the other guys.
He's the one I insulted a regional by assuming he was one of the 2 good bowlers on the pair based on the scoreboards, my son was on their pair after them. I wasn't really paying attention to who scored what. My assumption made an as* out of me and probably irked the heck out of him, I was trying to be nice.
Guess it's time to drop my opinion on this thread and simply hope others continue to post. I'd love to hear others feelings on this. I do have a very open mind. I share mine with the hopes to get others to contribute their 2 cents. I normally find the more I put myself out there, others feel comfortable doing the same even if it's totally different than my thoughts. That's how you grow and learn.
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Kathy, From PA!
Big mouth, loves to talk.
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I wish I knew as much about bowling as my son.
He's not a bragger but mom sure loves to share his good times!