Work on having them set up a system where they know, if they hit the 3rd arrow, this is where I stand to go to that pin type of system, make em take notes.
for practicing:
1. if you get two lanes, you cover the spares of the person on the lane next to you. lane 5 covers lane 6, and 6 covers 5. kind of like playing scotch doubles.
2. get a deck of cards, use the aces, 2, 3, 4, 6, 7, 10, draw a card at random and that's the one you go for first.
And you could also instill a rule, for every pin left for the sweeper arm during a match, that equals a pushup and / or a sit up at the next match.