It's like that in the league next to us, too. On Thursday nights, we have 3 mixed handicap leagues in the house.
One is called the "bergie bowlers". They truly are drinking teams with bowling problems.
Our league is the Belles and Beaux (yeah, archaic, but the league's been around 40+ years). We have some high average bowlers(210+), and some lower average bowlers(100-120). My team average is probably 50 pins higher than any other team, scratch, but there are some teams we give almost 300 pins to a game (4 bowlers). Our team has been together 3 years. We usually end up with the most wins overall for the year, but have NEVER won a round.
The third league (Thursday Mixers) has gone from 14 teams down to 5, because their league secretary's favorite saying to strong teams is "your team doesn't belong here". Our league has grown with teams from the Mixers league - unfortunately, we haven't gotten them all.
I keep bowling on that league - and I think it's because our whole team both loses and wins gracefully. We don't gloat, or rub it in, like some of the higher average teams can. We just have fun, and try to bowl as good as possible. After all, that's what it's all about.
Added on edit:
The league has also watched my teammate and I go from 185 or so averages to the 2 highest averages in the league. So maybe they recognize the effort and the work that's gone into the improvement.
But in general, I agree - if you really want to win, and you aren't a scratch bowler, you have 2 choices - take me out of it by making handicap ridiculous, or improve.
Edited on 12/19/2003 5:02 PM