I grew up in an 8 lane house, so obviously my choice is smaller. 16 lanes are on the edge, almost getting too big at that point. Several advantages of bowling in the small house;
1. You get to bowl every team at least 4 times per year (assuming an 8 lane house).
2. You get to know everyone on the league fairly well
3. Smaller houses often have, surprisingly, more and better settee areas for guests. Your friends/family can come to chat and watch you bowl.
4. More atmosphere. It's just more enjoyable to chat with the owner before/after league than it is to try to chat up a pimply faced kid who just wants you to go away so he can get back to try talking the blonde chick in the snack bar to put out after work.
5. Tougher shots - usually due to being on old wood lanes with older pins and worn kickplates. A 300 game is recognized as an accomplishment, spares actually mean something, 600 is still considered a good night, and you have to really be on and executing well to push 700.
The only downside to small establishments are these:
1. Smaller pool of good talent - harder to find a good, competitive league of really good bowlers.
2. Generally more wear on your equipment due to lane surface. But, on the flip side, a worn out ball is a great excuse to get a new one, so on second though, this one is a wash I think!
3. Fewer bowlers = smaller prize funds/side pots.
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