When I coached a high school team about 4 years ago, I was thrown into the fire with a varsity girls team that was used to everyone getting equal "playing time". This was a pain in the butt because I definitely had a team that was capable of being a district championship team. The previous coach was the girl's basketball coach and had no idea how to up a team.
The key is to get with any others on your coaching staff and possibly team captains for the upcoming season and set up a plan. This includes practice schedules, individual practices, and any financial planning you think you need. If you get everything organized and understood during the off season, then you shouldn't run into many problems.
When it comes to parents, just make sure they know that the team's decisions are those of yours and the players, not the parents. Parents at this point become spectators to the sport, nothing more, nothing less. And if that means they don't want their child involved, then they need to consider the damage they are doing to the child because of their actions. When you put the truth in front of most parents, they tend to come around real quick.
Most importantly, BE PATIENT! These aren't PBA stars or Team USA. They are going to make mistakes, be immature, and sometimes lose their cool.. you're their guiding light. Don't be like some coaches and get frustrated.. Keep all feelings aside and don't play favorites.
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Justin Buford
Orlando, FL
2009 Storm Bowling Staff Member
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