I second the "I do" part as well. However for men's tournaments, I have certain people I like to partner up with because we throw similar lines, and are able to make adjustments off of each other.
As to the question of pushing oil, yes this does happen. I get fussed out all the time for pushing oil into my wife's line making her stuff stop hooking because I am crossing the line she is playing
Let in the DOGS - I've got a HAMBONE for them!
To all the haters, get over it!