In working with my son's team, while I will make recommendations on small changes, a lot of what I will see I will discuss with the head coach first to make sure he's in agreement. This allows for balance to be maintained as (a) I don't want him thinking I want the head coaching job and (b) I want to make sure we both have the same message.
If something is changed and the other coach sees it, he might decide to try and change it back, not knowing that you made the change to begin with.
Communication is the best place to start, and then you see what happens from there. Leads to good respect too.