A firm wrist also comes in handy - if you tend to break your wrist back upon the swing (unconsciously or on purpose), this will make you grip the ball, too, and cause muscling as well as aching.
Another thing to check is your footwork and timing - if you have fast feet, you will tend to muscle the swing to catch up with your feet when you reach the foul line, but this should not be that severe that it causes pain.
And, just as spartan suggests, check the grip on your ball. Chances are that the thumb hole is too big (use tape to make it snug, but not too tight), the thumb pitch is not correct and or the span could not fit anymore through changes (growth?) of your hand.
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