This is somewhat of an anomaly to me and a topic I find a mystery.
First a quick bit about me (and this is not FIGJAM worthy), I'm currently having a career best 234 avg in one league and struggling in the other at 222 (to be fair, this house is naturally tougher)......my sport pattern average is in the 195ish range. FOR ME, I think my PBAX summer league is REAL bowling, and I relish the challenge. I would, in a perfect world, bowl on these patterns all winter long and set goals accordingly, if I were able.
What I'm asking about is this stereotypical ego that cannot handle NOT scoring, bowlers who NEED the inflated average a THS provides. This is a mystery to me. What happens to these people / ego's IN THE MOMENT when they're bowling on exceptionally difficult conditions? What are they thinking IN THE MOMENT of (for example after game 1 when they shoot 132) failure? Is there some cognitive dissonance or some Dunning–Kruger effect going on?
(Enter poker player me) I'm struggling to grasp the psychology of the stereotypical fragile ego (lets be honest, we ALL know them). Can someone help me w/this? I'm trying to reverse engineer the concept and understand the WHY the 195 PBAX average would crush my ego.....I mean, it's quite objectively obv that the THS is a softer condition and flat patterns are more difficult thus the universal scoring pace differential.
Think of this as analysis of the person YOU / WE ALL know......It's such a relevant topic in bowling today so a little exploration should be nice and everyone can contribute. Another way of stating it: If there were a truth serum in their blood and we could interrogate HONEST answers, what would we get?