Is the shot shutting everyone but the owner out?
No? Well, than you can adjust, too.
I used to bowl in a house where the owner liked to play 5 board. Guess where the shot was? I could beat my brains out trying to play 10, or I could adjust and play 5. I adjusted.
Now - if you don't want to add a new dimension to your game and learn how to play different conditions, don't bowl there. That's always a choice!