your phil and melissa example is lame. this is the adult league now. unless on a challenging pattern anyone could shoot 300 at any given time.. if your melissa was to shoot an average phil game on that 230 240 bs your talking about, not a single scratch bowler on the planet could beat her because the highest they could bowl is 300.... plus there are a total of 60 to 70 different possible scores that melissa could bowl that would make her the winner no matter what phil bowled, even if he bowled a 300. phil would not be able to mess up at all on any given game to even think about winning....... BY THE WAY THIS ISNT PRESCHOOL.. this is the REAL world. the strong and knowledgeable always win. if you are having such a hard time with the 90% of 220. get better and learn what it takes to average 230.... better yet ill tell you exactly what it takes to average 230. stop bitching, listen to people that average 230 and not someone who doesnt even average over 210, and the most important part. STOP COMPLAINING, PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRATICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE, WATCH A VIDEO OF HOW YOU BOWL AND ASK SOMEONE WHO KNOWS HOW TO FIX YOUR MISTAKES THEN PRACTICE, PRATICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE again and again. AND WHEN YOUR DONE WITH ALL THIS BITCHING AND COMPLAINING LIKE A WOMAN. GO PRACTICE SOME MORE. AND ONE DAY YOU COULD AVERAGE 230. ITS NOT THAT HARD IF YOU LISTEN TO THE PROPER PEOPLE AND STOP THINKING YOU KNOW EVERYTHING about bowling. those people that average 230 are actually being nice by letting you even have any kind of handicap. if they didnt you wouldnt stand a chance and they would squash you like a bug on a windshield.