When my first child was born in 09, I really dialed down the bowling. Like almost to nothing. Now, 8 years and 3 more kids later, I'm ready to Rev it back up into gear. But I will say that I now like being back in the center. It used to be a grind. So I broke the mold, and now I look at it with a clear head and all the bad muscle memory is gone. Take a break.