Maybe post a video of you bowling? Otherwise, let me be the first of many here to suggest; you need a coach. Not your league buddies, but an actual coach who can help you. Your pro shop might have someone who can help you or at least can suggest someone. Bowl.com has a list of registered coach's and you can search by location.
Although there are some very knowledgeable people here, I seriously doubt this is a problem you can solve on your own with the help of a few "tips" from people who have never seen you bowl.
Good luck, we all have those days when things get out of whack and bowling no longer makes sense. :-)