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Elimeno Pee

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Stay out of your own head.
« on: November 18, 2013, 09:44:33 PM »
What do you all use to get out of your head when you are bowling well?  The don't think about it doesn't work, you've already thought about it.
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Re: Stay out of your own head.
« Reply #1 on: November 19, 2013, 07:07:41 AM »
"Don't think about 14 pink elephants stomping through the cheesecake."

You can't! But you can focus on something else. Most guys talk about sports until even I am sick of hearing about it. Some people bring music and headphones to help them focus. Personally I think that's kind of rude in a social sport like bowling. A lot of folks have taken to playing on the internet and texting when they're not bowling. I often do people watching (and some waitress watching) to relax. I hate watching others bowl as it distracts me from my game. Unless I'm lost and need to find a breakpoint, I don't watch others bowl. I've got my own game and execution to worry about.
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Re: Stay out of your own head.
« Reply #2 on: November 19, 2013, 07:47:12 AM »
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Gene J Kanak

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Re: Stay out of your own head.
« Reply #3 on: November 19, 2013, 01:38:19 PM »
I'm not good at fooling myself or talking myself out of things, so pretending that pressure or nervous thoughts aren't there doesn't really work for me. I don't do much of anything in a conscious way while I'm off the approach. I just try to do what I always do, play cards, shoot the bull with teammates, watch the sports on TV, etc. Now, when it comes time to step up on the approach, I just try to give myself one "swing thought" (to use a golfing term) to focus upon. Usually, I try to focus on posting the shot. That's my trigger because 99/100 if I really get down and stay solid at the line, I'm going to execute a good shot. Others may have different thoughts, fast feet, stay under the ball, follow through, whatever. Again, in the end, I don't think there's a right or wrong way to approach this. Whatever gets you focused, yet calm is the way to go. It's all about staying in the moment and treating each shot as if it's no more important than the one that came before it because, truthfully, they aren't. We inject pressure into situations. The ball, lane, and pins don't know whether it's the first shot of the night or the last shot as you try for 300. As such, the more you can just stick with what you always do, the better of you're likely going to be.

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Re: Stay out of your own head.
« Reply #4 on: November 19, 2013, 01:48:49 PM »
When I really need to execute one good shot, I focus on posting the shot as well.  If I can remain balanced at the line, the shot will be right where I want it more times than not.

The second I forget to focus on that one thing, I'll wing one to god knows where.  Of course it will still strike though :P

Gene J Kanak

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Re: Stay out of your own head.
« Reply #5 on: November 19, 2013, 03:04:30 PM »
That's the beauty of house shots, MrNickRo! I wound up stringing 13 in a row between the end of the second game and the start of the third. I lost my focus and didn't post shot number 14, and I promptly got it to the dry too quickly, went through the beak and left a 3-6-7-10. I stoned a 9-pin after that, changed balls, and would've gone sheet had it not been for a solid 8 on the first ball in the 10th. Again though, that loss of focus in posting the shot immediately led to an errant shot and a terrible result for me. It's amazing how drastically things can change just by getting your mind in the wrong spot!

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Re: Stay out of your own head.
« Reply #6 on: November 19, 2013, 03:46:21 PM »
I have bowled serveral perfect games in my day but when i am really in the game is when I could adjust to the lane and oil movement with every shot because I was consistently watching my ball reaction.... I stop playing hook but ball reaction... Over hooking leaves allot of splits and corner pins.. That is just my opinion and I am two finger cranker...

Matt Fortney

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Re: Stay out of your own head.
« Reply #7 on: November 19, 2013, 11:28:32 PM »
I've actually had a lot of success embracing being in my own mind. The trick for me was to focus only on the shot at hand. One ball. each shot I'm only trying to throw the best shot I can.

I do think about my potential scores, between frames or what have you, or beating the guy I'm bowling against. I find that focusing on that allows me to not only stay in the moment, but also keep those thoughts from distracting me while I'm throwing my shot.

I do believe I'm in the minority with this thought process though. I've never really asked what other people do though. Good topic.

Matt